When your Aunt Janette refuses to sit at the same table as your Aunt Nina. When you’re at a fitting and realize the next three weeks will consist of gym time, gym time and more gym time to squeeze into the dress. When the minister bails. Everybody thinks “I wish we had eloped,” at some point or another while planning a wedding. And while things usually go swimmingly on your big day, there’s no harm in dreaming of what your intimate nuptials would have looked like. A beach wedding is always lovely. Wouldn’t this starfish barrette look amazing in a touseled updo?